Take Responsibility for Choices in Life

What is time? Is it a resource or a limitation, is it real or an illusion, can you really manage time? Are there real examples of people who have been excellent time managers? Are there people who are not troubled by managing their time?

Firstly time and stress are internally connected...in fact almost all forms of stress have their roots in time. 

Let us take a few examples. Why is an examination a stressful experience – because there is a time limit to it. Why is any contest a stressful experience, because there is a limited time in which you have to win it.Can you think of any competition where there is no imposed time limit? 

Just reflect on this for a moment, if there was no such thing as time, would there be something called as stress. 

YES!! U CAN WIN TIME...

you have to change the way you look at time. You have to look at time as a single moment available to you and not as a day, or a week or a month. This is the single most important shift that has to happen in order to understand and maximize time.

You are given only one moment at a time, what you do with it is all that matters. The moment you start thinking in terms of days, weeks and months, you have postponed your action. If you give it an hour to accomplish a task, it will postpone it to the next hour. If you give it one week to accomplish a task it will move it to the next week.

The only way to control your mind and time is to be in control of this very moment. When you tell your mind to accomplish something this very moment, it cannot postpone it, because postponing requires thinking, which requires time and a single moment cannot allow this. 

Remember, action is always about this moment, and thinking is always about what has already happened or what is going to happen.

The easiest way to manage time is to be aware of what you are doing at this very moment. So at this very moment, you can either prepare for your exams or watch television; you can either talk about preparing or actually prepare; you can either sleep or read. If you are aware of all your actions, you can make the necessary shift each moment to align it with your preparations.

And of course, stop giving yourself, convenient, stupid and idiotic justifications like; My food will not get digested, if I don’t eat it slowly for half an hour; I cannot concentrate if I don’t sleep for 11 hours a day; My mind will be fresh only after drinking a cup of tea; Too much of studies dulls my mind; I should not study continuously for more than 1 hour. My eyes will get affected if I see the laptop screen for long. I am different, I can only remember things if I study at midnight between 12 and 4!

Practical necessities and difficulties are always there, but that is for ordinary people. You should not even be reading this article if you consider yourself ordinary. You have to look at yourself as a warrior, who is willing to go to any lengths to Lead the world.

When they meet::both will loose their meaning

In The Past Few Years...

 I learnt to say three very imp words for professional life:-
* Yes sir
* Ok sir.
* I'll Just Do That sir

When I really wanted to quit, I learnt to: -
* Wake Up early
* Sleep late
* Continue to Work

I learnt to give reasons to family, friends and relatives for not making
* Phone Calls
* Messages
* Mails

I learnt to celebrate these things far away from loved ones:-
* Birthday
* Festivals
* New Year

In last one year, People say:-
* You Learnt...
* You Earned...
* You Enjoyed...

But when I compare me with my self...
* I just Sustained...
* I just Tolerated...
* I just Survived... for bucks

I have survived:-
* For convenience of my Family...
* To avoid blame of Society...
* To get tag of Employment...

When I already knew that I have got the wrong train.
* I learnt to Rejoice...
* To be Happy...
* To Smile..

I learnt that corporate life and dreams can never meet..
Because when they meet,
both will lose their meaning...

"Between Somewhere..."

Somewhere between letting GO and NOT MOVING ON...

Somewhere between "Hum sab khel rhe hain tu jaldi aja" And "Milne ka Plan Bnao Yaarrrr....."

Somewhere between "Crying out loud just to get what we want and Holding our tears even when we are broken inside"

We All Grew Up.....

And

Somewhere between-
"Bhai ek kaam hai"
        "Ho jayega saale..!!"
  "Tu rehne de, beta!!
       "Tu jaanta nahin mereko"
"Kya karunga jaanke"
    "Jo Ukhaadna hai ukhaad le!!!"
And
"Bhai,teri bhabhi maan gayi "

We all still fighting with them....
                              

दो रास्ते

“Anything I can’t control, I will not complain about...
But what I can, I will change”

"सपना- जो सोने नहीं देता"

Dedicated to the one, who find themselves struggling and digging for happiness, here's to you. You were born a warrior, all you need to do is wake yourself up. And the good times are here to come.

There’s one thing I always learnt in my failures, and that it made you look ugly. No matter how good you look, you’d still hate the guy in the mirror.
No matter how self-obsessed you’re, you’d still hate yourself. Or at least you’d be trying not to hate yourself.

There’s another thing failure taught me, and that’s to be humble to someone who has failed; to not look down on them; because you know how excruciating the pain is.
It will pain you, it will leave you void, it will leave you to tears. But that is when you don’t give up. It’s easy to say though, harder to be done.

I will breathe, when I find myself choked. I will rise, when I find myself pinned. I will fly, when I’ve my wings clipped. I will win, when there’s every odd against me.

There will be days when you’d cry alone, days when you’d weep and find no tears; days when you’d find the world against you. Days when you’d miss smiling so much that you’d cry like a kid; days when you’d lose your love and feel hollow inside.

That’s when you need to love yourself the most, because that person you see in the mirror is the only guy who will walk the eternity with you, not your love, not your peers, not anyone!

अग्निपथ...अग्निपथ...अग्निपथ

मैं ज़िन्दगी से हार कर या डर कर भागने वालों में से नहीं हूँ मगर कभी जीवन में कुछ मोड़ ऐसे आते है जब आप सब कुछ समझकर भी खुद से ये निर्णय नहीं ले पाते की आप जो करने जा रहे है उसका असर क्या होगा  , मैं दुनिया से लड़ सकता हूँ जीत सकता हूँ मगर जब लड़ाई अपने आप से हो तो जीत या हार मायने नहीं रखती , मालूम नहीं आगे क्या होगा मगर इतना तो सच है की ज़िन्दगी वैसी नहीं चल रही जैसी चलनी चाहिए या शायद मेरा तरीका गलत है , सच सिर्फ ईश्वर जानता है मार्गदर्शन भी उनसे ही माँगा है.....
चाँद से नजदीकियां बढ़ने लगी है, आदमी में फासला था, फासला है..

One Step Ahead

Life

"The Mystery Continues"

कुछ कम सुनने की आदत है, कुछ ज्यादा ही कह जाता हूँ,
कभी कभी राजा हो कर भी, प्यादा ही रह जाता हूँ...

मैं लाखों वादे निभा के तुमसे, कह देना चाहता था कि,
मैं प्यार जताना चाहता हूँ, पर आधा ही रह जाता हूँ,
कभी कभी राजा होकर भी, प्यादा ही रह जाता हूँ...

मित्र बनाने चला था एक दिन, लाख जतन कर डाले थे,
पर दुनिया की इस शान के आगे, सादा ही रह जाता हूँ,
कभी कभी राजा होकर भी, प्यादा ही रह जाता हूँ...

आकाश में टूटे लाखो तारे, हर तारे से ख्वाहिश की,
पर फिर शायद एक अधुरा वादा ही रह जाता हूँ,
कभी कभी राजा होकर भी, प्यादा ही रह जाता हूँ...

Precious Gift

 

Gifted by Sumit... 

#CROSSROADS

The road is long and tiring...and i walk sometimes wondering how much fun it was...

When we walked together… we laughed, we cried, we fought and made up like never...

little did we know what it was...but it was always there...

we named it “FRIENDSHIP."

Those days were brilliant...

never thought will ever end but here we are today...

all of us at different roads...

we still walk together, but different roads...i hope they cross someday, 

And at those crossroads, we meet and we are, like we separated never...