You have one life and in this life you can either live it like a warrior or a peasant.
A peasant always need to be told what to do, what direction to go in and what to believe in... While the warrior PAVES their own damn path in this ONE life. They make their OWN moves and they follow their OWN vision.
A warrior doesn't complain about their situation, NO MATTER what it is... They take their situation and choke it's neck into submission... Be a warrior.
Accept responsibility for where you are in life and have the courage to go HARD in the direction of your ULTIMATE VISION... No matter what 'they' say.