Uncertain Times

It’s very certain that these days we are all facing truly uncertain #times.

Having no clarity about something for which you have been preparing a lot by sacrificing so much, is indeed stressful.  It is depressing to know that all the effort that you are putting makes no sense at this moment. Sometimes it feels that what’s the point of working so hard when things are so uncertain in life – including life itself – thanks to #Corona (virus).

But this is an ordinary way of thinking. This way of thinking is for those who lack self-confidence and clarity about what they want in their lives. Uncertain future affects those people more who think that they deserve a certain future with definite outcomes because either they think they are intelligent or privileged; or they think that they are working too hard for it and are sure to earn it. Yes, you must be optimistic while pursuing a goal, but at the same time accept the fact that life is not always smooth.

The point is, while chasing success, you should be mentally prepared to face failures and uncertainties. The present phase is such a moment which you must accept and make peace with it without affecting your progress.

Life is always uncertain and it’s meant to be uncertain. If everything was certain, life would be very boring. Perfect order in the world poses no opportunity for growth.

Success comes to you only when you actually accept uncertainty and is undeterred by it..

Life has always been uncertain for you. At the age of 12 you wanted to become a policeman. At the age of 16 you wanted to become a pilot. At the age of 18 you wanted to join Indian Army. And at the age of 20 you wanted to join a big MNC and earn a very fat salary. Since childhood you have dealt with uncertainties. It’s just how strongly you want something that matters most.

Right now don’t think about tomorrow. You have so much to do today and you know it. Finish them first. Go on finishing pending tasks one by one. You don’t have to meditate to calm your mind. All you need to do is to stop thinking about the future. The best way to stop thinking about the future is to get busy today. Get very busy today. So busy that it should kill your appetite for food and appetite for procrastination.

The best way to deal with uncertain times is to fully surrender to a trusted Guru and do what that Guru asks you to do with 100 percent faith.

Take care of your health. Stay indoors. Stay safe. And keep smiling. Don’t spend much of this life thinking about what you don’t know i.e. uncertainty.

Daily Dose #Reaction

"When experiencing failure or shortcomings, what matters is not always the damage but how you react and what you learn from it."

Daily Dose #Darkness

"When Night falls, go out and watch the Sky.

Let the stars remind you why a little Darkness is needed."

Daily Dose #LifeAdvice

"Stop believing that you deserve special treatment.

Thinking you deserve special treatment actually inhibits your ability from achieving anything because it leads you to wait for that which you believe you deserve.

Remember, the world doesn't owe you anything."

Daily dose #SelfHelp

 "To avoid defeat, know when to surrender and reevaluate your strategy. Know when your're the weaker one in the battle and accept that you cannot win.

Do not give your opponent the satisfaction of beating you."

THE 7 STEPS OF GOAL SETTING

 Did you know there's a 7-Step Process, that can guarantee you accomplishing every goal?


Step 1: Identify The Exact Goal

Write it down and describe it clearly.If you want to have specific success you must have specific targets.

VERY SPECIFIC.

Step 2:  List Your Benefits

Let's face it, we only do the things if there is some kind of award/reward. If there are no strong personal benefits, your motivation for completing the goal will be diminished.

Step 3: List The Obstacles

Make a complete list of all the things that can Prevent you from reaching your goal.

Step 4: Skills or Knowledge Required

Knowledge gives the power to accomplish things, and skills give us the tools to take advantage of our knowledge.

Step 5: Identify Who Will Help

Consider the people and groups who can help you on your way.

Step 6: Develop A Plan Of Action

This is the toughest step and it involves thinking through the Details of how you will achieve your goal.

Step 7: Set a Deadline

If you don't set a deadline for completing your goals you will not be able to be accountable to yourself.

And if you are not accountable for your goals you will not achieve them.