"Stress Management Funda"

It’s no secret that once you are successful the going gets tougher, and it becomes lonely at the top. Life has stress – work, relationships, health, finances – the list never ends. Nowadays, people are also stressed because of increasing competition and the want for recognition. 

This means constantly working goals, without losing focus. It’s more like a marathon than a race. And it doesn’t end with reaching the finish line. Managing all that, while still having a life, indulging in hobbies, keeping up-to-date with global issues, socializing, getting enough sleep, and finally having some ‘me’ time, can be overwhelming.  
We often think that getting to the top means we are expected to do more than everyone else in the same 24 hours. 
We are programmed to think that way. Then how to address the state of our emotional well-being instead of burying it deep within our minds? This is the domain of the heart, the seat of our emotions, and the way to self-mastery of our emotions.

The ways how most successful people manage stress:
Reading: 
It is scientifically proven that reading has a relaxing effect on the body. It lowers the pulse and eases tension in our muscles. In fact, reading can reduce stress by 68 percent.
It works better than listening to music or sipping a hot cup of herbal tea. 

Tuning out the noise:
If we listen to everything that everyone has to say, we are bound to be extremely stressed. An effective way to deal with stress is tune out all the background white noise and focus on the positive things of life.  
“In today’s environment, the world is full of cynics and you have to tune them out. Because if not, they become a cancer in your mind, in your thinking, and you begin thinking that you can’t or that life is negative”. - TIM COOK, CEO of APPLE INC.

Planning:
Stress is often caused by the unexpected. Having a plan that’s flexible and can accommodate unexpected work, will not only keep stress at bay but also help you perform the task efficiently.  
Most successful people either plan their week ahead or have days dedicated to certain kinds of work.
Planning the week ahead will not only help prioritize your work but will leave you with some free time if nothing unplanned turns out, allowing you to indulge in your hobbies.  
While it’s always good to plan, it’s important to be flexible enough to adapt and change the plan when needed, re-prioritizing in the moment.

Meditation:
Meditation has miraculous powers. Spending a few minutes at the start of the day, distilling the essence of thought from scattered, chaotic multi-directional thinking to effortless single-pointed thinking, is itself a wonderful skill. 
But that is only the beginning! This ability to focus becomes a springboard to dive into the heart connecting with the world of feeling, and an even deeper consciousness of being. 
Meditation not only increases productivity but also keeps stress at bay. 





"मैं और ये आसमाँ एक से हैं"

मैं और ये आसमाँ एक से हैं,
मिलते रोज़ दोनों अपनी ज़मी से मगर एक होते नहीं है,
अंत दोनों का ही नही मगर एक जगह पे दोनों ही खत्म होते से हैं.

ये समुद्र और मैं एक से हैं,
गरजते बाहर से खूब मगर अंदर कुछ छुपाये शांत से हैं,
विस्तारित दोनों अनंत तक मगर खुद में ही दोनों कुछ सिमटे से हैं.

मैं और ये पहाड़ दोनों ही एक से हैं,
चांद को छूने की कोशिश में अड़े अपनी जगह दोनों ही कुछ पागल से हैं,

मैं और ये हवा एक से हैं,
चलते रहते दोनों ही मगर फिर भी कुछ स्थिर से हैं,

मैं और ये बिन बरसे बादल एक से हैं,
छिपाये कुछ आंसू आंखों में दोनों ख़ामोश बैठे से हैं,

मैं और ये दुनिया एक से हैं
इसके बिना मैं नही मेरे बिना ये नही,
फिर भी मगर दोनों अलग अलग से हैं!!!

"हंसी में मैं अपनो की, अपनी जय ढूंढता हूँ"

अक्सर क्या ढूंढता हूँ, मैं लय ढूंढता हूँ,
धीमी शांत लहरों में, प्रलय ढूंढता हूँ।

बैठा हूँ किनारे पर, देख रहा क्षितिज को हूँ,
जैसे खारे पानी मे कुछ मय ढूंढता हूँ।

वर्तमान में बैठा हूँ, रेत पे रख सिर लेटा हूँ,
इस सूकून में क्यों भविष्य का भय ढूंढता हूँ।

होना है मुझको भी कुछ, लेकिन होकर करना क्या,
हंसी में मैं अपनो की, अपनी जय ढूंढता हूँ।

अच्छा और बुरा जो भी, वक़्त के हाथ का होना है,
जो भी हो स्वीकार मुझे, अभय ढूंढता हूँ।

मन की एक गति है तो, गति रोकना चाहता हूँ,
तीनों काल के बाहर का, समय ढूंढता हूँ।

Take Charge of Power


You are never given a problem that you cannot handle. 
Every problem that comes in front of you is to make you realize that you have the skill, talent and ability to come out of it...It is just for you to uncover your true potential.
It’s all to make your mind, your intelligence function. 
When do you really need intelligence?...When there is a problem, isn’t it? 
The Divine has given you brains to use it,  to be alert, and every problem that appears in life is an opportunity for you to use your brain.  But we do the reverse. 
We don’t use this brain, and we get into more complications! 
Or we use our brain to get more complications rather than solving them! 

If we have a problem, instead of looking at the solution, we keep looking at how big the problem can become, or  imagine about the worst outcomes.

Real Management

ऋग्वेद के अनुसार जो अनाज खेतों मे पैदा होता है, उसका बंटवारा तो देखिए-
1- जमीन से चार अंगुल भूमि का,

2- गेहूं के बाली के नीचे का पशुओं का,

3- पहली फसल की पहली बाली अग्नि की,

4- बाली से गेहूं अलग करने पर मूठ्ठी भर दाना पंछियो का,

5- गेहूं का आटा बनाने पर मुट्ठी भर आटा चीटियों का,

6- चुटकी भर गुथा आटा मछलियों का,

7- फिर उस आटे की पहली रोटी गौमाता की,

8- पहली थाली घर के बुज़ुर्ग़ो की

9- फिर हमारी थाली,

10- आखिरी रोटी कुत्ते की,

ये हमें सिखाती है , सनातन संस्कृति
और मुझे गर्व है कि मैं इस संस्कृति का हिस्सा हूँ।

HEY YOU....

Yes YOU!!!

Stop being unhappy with yourself. You are perfect. Stop trying to get attention from those who hurt you. Stop hating your body, your face, your personality. Love them. Without those things you wouldn't be you. And why would you want to be anyone else?

Be confident with who you are. Smile. It will draw people in. If anyone hates you because you are happy with yourself then stuff them.

Your happiness will not depend on others anymore. Say to them, "I am happy because I love who I am. I love my imperfections. They make me, me. and that "me" is amazing.

First Step

Be Willing To Walk Alone,
Many Who Started With You....
Won't Finish With You... 


YOU ARE THE STORM

You have one life and in this life you can either live it like a warrior or a peasant.

 A peasant always need to be told what to do, what direction to go in and what to believe in... While the warrior PAVES their own damn path in this ONE life. They make their OWN moves and they follow their OWN vision. 

A warrior doesn't complain about their situation, NO MATTER what it is... They take their situation and choke it's neck into submission... Be a warrior. 

Accept responsibility for where you are in life and have the courage to go HARD in the direction of your ULTIMATE VISION... No matter what 'they' say.

Touching Hearts

Birthdays are days to celebrate life, to take stock of what you have achieved,
to share time with those whom you consider closest to you.
There is time to realize the mistakes made and the relationships lost.
We all celebrate birthdays with new clothes and make elaborate plans to treat
but do we appreciate the prayers that our parents would have said ?

I have a rule which I follow when it comes to wishing people on birthdays.
If I haven’t spoken to you in the last year or haven’t had any interaction with
 you during the last 12 months, I am not going to wish you.
Because you deserve better.
If I am just remembering you from a Facebook notification,
I don’t deserve to be on your “friend list”.

Take time out on this one day and spend it with folks that matter. Make this day count meaningfully. Even while wishing someone on their special days, wish with your heart not just your lips; take some time and make your wish count; you rarely get opportunities to appreciate a person, use this day to appreciate as well.

Trust me you will add miles to the smiles on the face of the person you wish.

Balidan Yaad Rakhna

वास्तविक ज़िन्दगी में हीरो वो है जो हमारे बोलने की आज़ादी, हमारे अधिकारों जान-माल की सुरक्षा के लिए अपनी जान तक की परवाह नहीं करते।
यदि डिफेन्स की कोई खबर ना आये तो  हमें याद भी नहीं रहता की सीमा
पर कोई है जो हमारे लिए दिन रात ड्यूटी कर रहे है कि हम चैन से अपने त्यौहार मना सकें ।
ये देश के लिए मरना नहीं चाहते बल्कि जीना चाहते हैं ताकि आखरी सांस तक देश की रक्षा कर सके।
But are we doing enough for them???
NO...but the fact is they don't even care.

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